I know this girl for 4 years, later on she starting flirting with me which ended to a date with talk and we decided to date each others, BUT she said casual dating.
She told me how bad she was treated in the past relationships how bad did her dad treated her mom and her step dad too.
I am acting only too nice and sweet to her, cooking for her, helping her and her business partner in business,
But now we are dating for over a month, and she introduced me to her mom, but what bothers me that she does not respond to my romantic or flirt text messages only the business one.
we almost do not talk at all unless regarding the business.
Her friends are not suppose to know that we are dating but when we are alone we are having a great time, also her friends see me after with her.
Is this what we call casual dating?
or is she playing?
and even if I do not text her then she text me I miss you or ask me if I am upset.
can someone tell me is this a game?
Most Helpful Girl
OMG, if we all let past bad relationships keep us from finding love, well this website probably wouldn't be needed. Most people have had some sort of bad relationship and many of us have had bad examples from parents.
I don't know that she is playing you, but not cool that she answers your business texts but not your personal texts. In the end, you have to ask yourself, "Is this working for me?". If it isn't, you have to talk to her. I am not saying you will talk to her and she will change. But if you do not, there is no hope she will change. And, if you do talk to her and she says she doesn't want to change or isn't ready to be less "casual", you have to know how you will respond to that. It's only been a month so maybe you will want to hang in there a little longer. But then again, maybe you will consider you deserve better, she cannot give that to you, and you will move on and open yourself up for the girl who will adore you and will want to show everyone that she is dating you.
I am a fan of the last option. Good luck.2
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