I've had my heart broken. I almost got married and the guy ditched. So now I found pleasure in making players and jerks fall for me then breaking their hearts. I don't hurt nice guys I only hurt those who hurt others. It's almost like being robin hood except with love instead of money. Is it bad?
It's bad. You're acting exactly like the guy who hurt you. He hurt you and now you're hurting others but it's not okay. You have to let it go. You are taking your revenge out on others and that will not make you happy. You're letting the hurt make you hurt others. And you're not happy or fulfilled, are you? Hurt never fills anything. Revenge only makes you sick. It's hard to not hate sometimes, it's hard to keep yourself soft and tender and full of light when faced with so much hurt and badness. But if you keep doing this, you're a part of it. You're not a part of the solution, you're a part of the problem. That isn't okay.
I say it makes you a bad person. How do you know these guys are players? Just because someone acts a certain doesn't make them that type of person. So you have not right to harm others. Do onto others as you would have done onto yourself, and you're not "Robin Hood."
hurting someone else cause a certain person hurt is wrong don't be dumb how about instead of hurting them be honest, hey look someone hurt me and I don't want anything serious lets just be friends and fuck, that's what I do if she doesn't like it I move on you're better off being honest than hurting people on purpose
Most players have been hurt before... Obviously, you becoming a player is a reflection of it... Just hurting someone more isn't going to help them see with new eyes, it's only going to keep them on that twisted path... Try being there as a friend and show them the good in people... You're no better than the guy who hurt you... It's heartless - you were hurt yes, now get over it and let the ego go already
It's bad acting in the same way that you were treated and didn't like, how low can you go two wrongs do not make it right.
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