All my friends are telling me I am too demanding of women, here are my criteria:
She must be attractive (at least a 7/10), preferably Asian but I'll take a white girl too, she has to have a good degree from a good college in a STEM, medicine, or business type field. She has to be funny and talkative, she can't party, drink, or smoke, no tattoos or piercings (other then 1 or 2 ear piercings), must be a virgin, she has to be intelligent, friendly, hard working, and caring towards family and close friends. She also has to be religious, and great with kids.
Is this too much to ask? I fit almost all of these standards (except I am not incredibly outgoing, which is why I want her to compliment me), but other then that I am all of those things so its not like I am demanding more hten I am offering. How unrealistic are these standards?
Most Helpful Girl
Can't party, can't smoke, can't drink, no tattoos and hardly any piercings, has to be a virgin and hard working.
Also, should only speak when spoken to, know her place, make sure food is ready by the time I'm home and be a freak in the sack despite having zero experience.
It's good to have standards, but when you lay out your laundry list like that, it sounds more like you're shopping for a mail order bride rather than looking for a compatible companion.9
Most Helpful Guy
that is a lot to ask.
is it too much to ask? i mean in my opinion yes but you can have whatever criteria you want. i just think you are going to have a very difficult time finding a girl who fits that bill. i think you need to be able to compromise on some of those standards to expand the pool of potential partners. just imagine that there are 330million people in the US. about 55% are women. so you cut that number in half. about 2/3 of americans are getting college degrees these days. then you have to factor in how many of them have degrees in the fields you mentioned, how many don't drink, smoke or party, have tattoos or piercings, are virgins, etc, etc... suddenly the pool of women you are looking at is strikingly small and obviously not all the women in that remaining pool are going to be into you...
keep whatever criteria you have. but also consider how realistic it is to find a person to fit that bill and if it's wise to cast aside what could be tons of great women who don't fit your criteria1