He went to see his parents 3 weeks ago. The 2 weeks were fine, we talk everyday until one day he stopped texting me. I gave him short replies the last time we texted and he said that's why. He texted me couple of days before New Years and my reply was kind of cold (idk why it is, he asked me a question I answered it with a period and it was short) and he didn't reply. Texted again on New Years eve and everything seemed fine. I texted him again a day after that talked for a few hours and thats the last time I heard from him.
- He's lost interestVote A
- You're overthinkingVote B
- Other or resultsVote C
Most Helpful Guy
You're looking into a mirror here - he is worried that you have lost interest in him, you're worried he's lost interest in you! Assuming that isn't the case, make sure he knows it, and that'll help reassure yourself as well.1
Most Helpful Girl
It seems when this cat was away, it is not that he is at play, I feel, that perhaps with the "He said, She said" deal, it became an Ordeal in which maybe he talked to his folks of your current relationship and maybe not, but somehow Now... Things are not so hot.
He may have realized as well that he liked his freedom and that he doesn't want to feel he has to be hooked at the hip with convo or communication if he doesn't feel like it.
Try to talk more of this if you get the chance. He may want to be his own straw boss now somehow.
Good luck. xx1
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