So I just got rejected after I told my guy friend that I liked him.
He was nice about it, but then he added "you're very innocent and I like to drink and party and stuff, and I don't want to be that kind of influence on you".
I'm 19 and a sophomore in college.
I've never had a boyfriend, gone on any dates, kissed anyone, or any other stuff like that.
I'm a introvert so like my alone time. In other words I don't go to any college parties and actually have only stayed out past midnight a handful of times. Instead I stay home and read or watch Netflix. I can be social-ish at times, and I love talking to people who share my interests.
I know I'm innocent, but am I so innocent that I'm not dateable?
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No, I think he was just worried about your compatibility with him - he probably wants a girlfriend who will party with him and thinks you probably won't. But that doesn't make you undatable, it just means one guy you happened to like didn't feel like you were the right girl for him. There are plenty of guys out there and they are all different so just keep looking for the right guy who loves who you are.7