So my question is, this girl I've been dating has recently been going hot and cold in terms of affection. Somedays she seems really interested talking about or relationship, other days she turns really cold and becomes quite harsh and uncaring. She's going through a rough patch at the moment apparently as she's says she has been doing a lot of thinking about a previous relationship that was abusive and its bringing her down. So is she losing interest? Or is she just being unstable?
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She's probably fighting her feelings about getting too close to you or too attached to you since she has been hurt in the past. Her feelings start to get deeper or more intense, then she remembers what happened with the other guys, then she gets scared or self protective and simply backs off probably with a negative attitude as well.2