I've become friends with this guy recently. He's really sweet, funny, and I feel comfortable around him. But now I think he's asked me on a date.
I suspected that he may have liked me a little bit but now I'm quite sure he does (he hasn't confessed it explicitly, though). But the thing is I have zero romantic interest in him, despite all of his good qualities. I just want to be friends. What complicates it more is that he is my ex's friend.
What do I do?
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I think you should tell him that he is a friend that you have no romantic interests in, but that you would be willing to go out with him to get to know him a bit better. Go someplace where you can talk, like a meal or just coffee, that kind of thing. You can get to know him better, you can explain your feelings to him, and you may also find that you do have at least some romantic interest in him after all. So go out for the opportunity to get to know him better, But let him know in advance that that is what you are doing.0