I'm not easy and yes rejection is nothing new to me
But I also am attractive and I'm nice and the guys that I'm not attracted to usually approach me
And the funny part is the men who defend assholes who only want sex and lie are usually assholes too
I tried giving so called nice guys a chance but they are either too desperate or assholes when I start talking to them
And no I don't jump into relationships only been in 2 with guys who were good guys until my ex became an asshole and ignored me before he dumped he through text then he aologixed years later
Also, the assholes were nice and once I began to know them they revealed their true colors as an asshole
Most Helpful Guy
For guys it usually starts with attraction that makes them want to know more about you. If there is no attraction to begin with then there is usually no interest in getting to know you, at least in a relationship type of way.
For girls it's often the other way around. It's when then get know the guy that they build connection, comfort and attraction. Girls want those things before they create sexual attraction. Men want sexual attraction before they create those other things.
We both reach the same conclusions, we just start at opposite ends of it.3
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Most Helpful Girl
I know exactly how you feel! I dated a guy who seemed really nice to start with then as we got further into the relationship I realised he was a right a**hole. I know you only spoke to them and didn't date them but some guys know how to play a girl. Another guy I went on a couple of dates with tried to get me to have sex on the 1st date and decided to sneak me round the back of his house so his parents wouldn't see me... Now I have a lovely boyfriend of 1 and a half years. Most of the other guys were young, selfish and good looking. The problem is they knew they could get multiple girls because of that so didn't want a relationship. It's when you feel that spark, and can't help but lock onto each others gaze, when he approaches you and doesn't push you into anything but discusses it with you, that's when you've found a good one.0