Unlike guys you can either choose to or not, and it will never be a deal breaker. Guys can choose to, but its 99.99% of the time is going result in hime being dateless if he goes this route. Thoughts?
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Not sure if they will dodge it, but I am quite sure a lot of girls do enjoy not having to do the work. It is easier to just be the object of desire and having others do the initial work.
Personally I don't have a problem with it and having us guys being hunters. I only have two issues about it:
1. Dear girls, make yourself approachable. Don't always be surrounded by 20 female friends, make eye-contact, smile. The little things.
2. Every girl should at least once in her life do a cold approach. Aka just go to a guy who hasn't noticed her, but she finds attractive and approach him. Know how it feels to do it in order to be more humble and grateful about the actual effort and emotional investment behind it.1