I'm really sick of being single now, I've been single my whole life / never had a boyfriend and it bothers me a lot. I'm constantly complimented by people, random people even who tell me how attractive I am which is nice but they aren't the people who I want to be giving me attention, boys never ever approach me. A few guys talk to me in clubs but again, they're not serious and I'm not interested in that kind of thing I just want a real relationship. My best friend is constantly talking to guys/going on dates and I'm always the one providing support and having to watch her being all loved up when I wish I was in the same position. It really gets me down and I don't know what to do. I know people will say a relationship isn't everything but I'm craving it now, I just want a new kind of experience and I think I'm ready. :( I'm just so lonely and if I'm so pretty and could 'be a model' why aren't boys coming up to me? Lmao
Most Helpful Guy
guys might be to intimidated by you for one reason or another. do you unconsciously portray that your unapproachable? if thats the case you are going to have to do the work on approaching. that or you looking in the wrong places for the guy your looking for. a club to me is not a place to find a guy for a " real relationship ". look at the people around you in your normal life at coffee shop, place of work, etc do you see the same guy always alone? try asking if the seat is taken and try to talk to them. yes you might get turned down but there is a chance to could meet someone new. plus doing it this way if you dont like them its a public place and you can always leave1
Most Helpful Girl
Let's see here.
I've been single after being brutally dumped, being told I wasn't enough for him and to consider him a dream. Not too pleasant being told that haha.
If you're depressed being single, I suggest you begin to love yourself. Do things that make you happy. Read, write, draw, play video games, hang with friends, watch netflix. Try to discover yourself, pay attention to the beautiful things in life.
I promise you, if you look at life with a happier view then you will be more comfortable in your own skin. That will make you happy being single. Then a guy will come along one day and steal your heart when you least expect it. Sometimes the best things in life are the most unexpected...
I'm sure you're a beautiful girl, and you will find someone who loves you for you. That is the type of person you should be with, don't be in a relationship just so you're not single anymore.
There was a saying I found and at first, I really liked it because I agreed with it. "They say you can't love someone until you love yourself. That's bullshit because I loved you so much I forgot what hating myself was like."
I found that a little after my ex left me and I agreed... so fucking much. Well I am working on loving myself and I am so god damn happier with the positive attitude I have.
I think I have become more abrasive to people but I am being honest. That quote in itself is bull shit.
"You can't love someone until you love yourself." Is some of the realist shit I've heard.
You can be happy being single. You don't need anyone to come along and hold your hand throughout life. Be your own person, love yourself and the beauty you give off, it will radiate from you and attract the best kind of people. As friends or lovers.0