Honestly, about half the people in your own league that are single will probably be open to dating you -and that is by male standards, yours might be higher. Assuming that you consider that attractive the attractive part should not be such a huge problem.
Good personality is something else entirely. At least as far as my experience goes. Meaning no offense, an attractive girl is rather common, an attractive personality in a girl is by far more rare. Supposedly same for men.
Women get rejected more seldom because they are in general not the ones initiating. If they are I imagine they'd be rejected roughly as often as men.
Never met any people from Gag so I can't attest to the general attractiveness of either gender.