So i struck a convo with her, got her facebook, spoke for a week, then i decided to ask her out for coffee... she didn't respond till 2 days later which was not the common theme compared to our texting the past week.
And she replied with "sorry just got this text".
If you're not keen, just say so... why can't women do this?
Most Helpful Girl
Hey.. as a Swedish girl I think I might know why…. women usually chose their guys if they're really interested. So if she likes you, she'll almost act as if you roofied her the first day. I've given out my number to a lot of guys but I've actually stopped doing that because it seems like you can't make friends with guys.. don't get hurt by this and and angry at girls… it's just the way we are… if she likes you, and you send her a flattering text, or compliment her she will almost ask for a date if she likes you back!1
Most Helpful Guy
Because women are cowardly and hate confrontation. They would rather not saying anything, string you along, or give you BS excuses that are not true in order to avoid coming out and saying the truth that they were not interested. Also many girls like the idea of a guy chasing, and showing interest in them without any intent of liking said guy. So she nay have been just using you to stroke her ego and get attention.1