List top 5 turn offs?

What are the top 5 things about the opposite (or same) gender that turn you off? I am doing a small study so I would like to hear your opinions. :)

Updates:
Thanks for all of the contributions, guys :)
I have my anwers :D

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Most Helpful Guy

  • Insecurity (includes things like jealousy)
    Untrustworthiness
    Bad communication skills
    Not passive. I like when a woman has a presence about her.
    I'd prefer a woman who isn't a heavy drinker, smoker, partier, etc..

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Most Helpful Girl

  • -unintelligent
    -unambitious
    -inconsistent
    -not truthful
    -no sense of humor

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What Guys Said 29

  • 1. If she lies or is dishonest.
    2. If she has a poor personality and treats men badly.
    3. If she is bitter about men or is a misandrist.
    4. If can can't accept when she actually is wrong and still has to put the blame on me.
    5. If she is a smoker.

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    • Good list

    • Thank you very much. I think the things I have listed are more important than looks. You can have a good looking person but if their personality is bad what is the point.

    • True. That's what I always thought

  • 1. Mainpulative attitude. Includes everything from constantly shifting the blame, playing games, to just simple old nagging.

    2. sexist, or judges people by sweeping generalizations or stereotypes. Includes using such to decide her actions

    3. Constant passiveness. Dating is a game for two, and i expect her to put some effort into it too. If she think she can get away with just demanding and not doing anything, she's wrong.

    4. Being self-entitled. Do i really need to explain this? sorry girl, you're not getting special treatment just because you're a woman, and you feel you deserve it for absolutely no reason.

    5. A lack of sexual morals. I've chosen to wait so far because i see sex as something more than mindless fucking. The least i can demand from a girl is to have some standards. I'm fine with her having had sex before, as long as it's in a comitted relationships, and she has stayed faithfull. I'm just not okay with one night stands and cheaters. They show a sexual moral I don't approve of.

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  • Opposite gender.

    Heartlessness
    Ignorance
    Bitchyness as I call it.
    Unawareness. Sure, everyone is unaware to some extent, but not knowing anything about yourself and basically living by/for/with ur mask only as well being completely unaware towards other people is not attractive.
    Shallowness. Its fine to have shallow interests or needs sometimes, certainly if just hobbies or about things only concerning you, but with people or desires its just a huge turn off. Like say if a guy didn't have the right eye color for some reason or expecting someone to always hold the door for you. And being so very into gossip and spreading rumors an that whole nonsence.

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  • 1. Smoking.
    2. Poor spelling and grammar.
    3. Poor dress sense
    4. Makes me initiate everything. (Yet to find a girl who puts in equal or more effort than me)
    5. Too much make-up. Not interested in Umpa-Lumpas

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    • You had me at "Umpa-Lumpas" XD

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    • @letsnot No class.
      Goes out in trashy sweatpants and a hoodie.

      She doesn't have to wear a dress, jeans are fine.. Just as long as she doesn't look like she lives in a skip.

    • Lol got it

  • 1. gossip or back biter
    2. Wants to text and never talk on the phone or tries to text me instead of talking to me in real life
    3. Girls who try to tell me about their day and super over exaggerated it on how they had such a bad day basically when they fib.
    4. Gold digger or cheater
    5. When they act clingy

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  • In no particular order:
    1. Smoking
    2. Acting cold or bitchy
    3. Too much meakup or heels too high
    4. Boobs or ass too big
    5. Princess mentality/ sassyness

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  • -Narrow-Minded
    -Bad hygienes
    -Addiction to partying, drinking, drugs
    -Lack of common sense
    -Lack of reasoning

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  • 1. Smoking
    2. Conceited/ stuck up
    3. No class/trashy/no manners
    4. Constant swearing
    5. No social decorum

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    • I agree especially with your 5th one.. I'm not fond of people who swear a lot.

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    • It was a joke I'm sorry.. i got all 5 tho!

    • What is social decorum?

  • Abusive
    Apathy
    Constant negativity
    Unresolved addiction issues
    Untrustworthy

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  • 1. Uninformed ignorant/doesn't think for themselves
    2. Smoking or drinking (I have a zero tolerance policy if we're gonna being term)
    3. Bad hygiene ( you shouldn't smell)
    4. Fakeness (fake tan, a shit load if makeup etc)
    5. Personality aspects being controlling, immature, fussy, clingy, obnoxious etc

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    • Agree a lot with number 4.. Some girls like wearing makeup and I get that but sometimes being or acting or looking fake is a big no.

  • Being boring
    Being obnoxious and/or rude
    Bad fashion sense
    Bad hygiene
    Being superficial
    Honorable mention for being dumb but I'd take a dumb, nice girl over a smart bitch any day.

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    • Describe a boring girl...

    • @letsnot Someone unwilling to try new things, too predictable, a girl who is too serious and/or can't have a good time, etc.

  • This is what turns me off

    1. Ugly / Lazy
    2. Bad Hygiene
    3. Lesbian
    4. Makes No Effort
    5. Selfish

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  • 1. If she smokes
    2. if She has no sense of humor
    3. She Gets angry very easily
    4. If she hates samurais :P
    5. WHEN SHE SAYS "I WANT TO LOSE WEIGHT IM TOO FAT" AND SHE IS FINE

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    • Girls get insecure when really they look fine, but you have a point there lol

  • In women:
    Vanity
    Ditsiness
    Poor Hygiene
    Extreme Feminism
    Uneducated

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  • My list is quite long.

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  • For Girls:
    1. Does drugs
    2. Rude, mean. Insults people and picks on people "less" than her.
    3. Thinks she is better than all guys because she is a girl and "all guys are stupid."
    4. Unintelligence
    5. Has piercings besides ears.

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  • Abusive.
    Insecure.
    Untrustworthy.
    Unintelligent.
    Mainstream feminist.

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  • - Doesn't talk about interesting things
    - Insecure / jealous
    - Does not take personal responsibility for their life
    - Very religious (organized religion)
    - Follows stereotypical gender roles and expects others to do so

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    • What kinda interesting things do you like?

    • @letsnot Things that take thought, like philosophy, psychology, science, math, computers/programming/internet, the future, evolution of humans, origins of life, space/astronomy, the purpose/meaning of life, whats ethical to do or not, specialized areas of knowledge that most people don't have, non-mainstream art/music,..

      I mean I don't expect to talk about stuff like this all the time, I'm not hyper serious or anything, I often like to just have fun and do random stuff without thinking about it. But if someone never wants to talk about at least *some* of the topics listed above, then I'm not going to feel a very deep connection with them.

  • 1. A habit of not showering often enough (experienced this first-hand in a relationship)
    2. An attitude that tends to be negative.
    3. Narrow/closed mind
    4. Bad breath/smoker breath
    5. Faces that look old/leathery at too young of an age

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  • Attitude number 1
    number 2 hygiene
    number 3 honesty
    number 4 never had any motivation to begin with or still lacks motivation
    number 5 she wants me to be really really out there when i mean out there like try some really bad new tthings not good new things

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  • Not in any order.
    1. Big sun glasses
    2. Lip rings
    3. Flakey personality
    4. Bitchy/controlling/naging/try's to wear the pants mentality
    5. Plays games/expects the guy to do everything

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  • Untidiness
    I don't drink but not an entire turn off
    Unhygienic
    Smoking
    Questining my friends

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  • the fact that some topics turn her off, I shouldn't have too limit myself for her
    the fact that she wants too be the man
    the fact that she believes she thinks like a man
    when she doesn't admit she's a slut
    when she doesn't play her role

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  • Shyness and Timidness
    Lacking sense of humor
    Lack of health
    Closed minded
    Flat ass.

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    • It's not a girla fault if she has a flat ass lol

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    • @letsnot Well too bad I can't control who I am attracted to.

    • Me too. The reason we all get heartbreak

  • Stupid
    Fat
    Poor teeth/oral hygiene
    Poor general hygiene
    Manipulative/game-player

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  • In no particular:

    1. Smokes
    2. No sense of humour
    3. Overweight
    4. Bad attitude
    5. Clinginess

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  • Ugliness, obesity, nerdiness, shyness, submissiveness.

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  • Similar to what's been said before, though a slight bit different.
    1. Dishonesty
    - Sleeping around/interested in anyone
    - Bad hygiene
    - Lots of partying, drinking or even drugs
    - Overly using social media (I especially dislike people posting a lot of pictures of themselves)
    Last 4 are pretty much equally bad to me

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  • Ugly (just being real), rude, stupid/dumb, annoying, being a know it all

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What Girls Said 15

  • Makes no effort
    Doesn't like people
    Doesn't talk to me ever
    smokes
    drinks
    Makes fun of women!
    And the list can go forever!

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  • Smoking/drugs of any kind.
    Closed mindedness
    Racism
    Sexism
    Hating my family

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  • 1. Extremely shy
    2. Indecisive
    3. Lazy, makes zero effort
    4. Self entitled
    5. No self esteem

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  • 1. Intolerance
    2. Ignorance
    3. Bad hygiene / laziness
    4. Violent/combative personality
    5. Doing drugs or smoking

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  • 1. Smoker
    2. Obsessive or manipulative attitude
    3. Never initiates anything
    4. Is self entitled
    5. Tries to change me

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  • 1. Arrogance
    2. Selfish
    3. Racist/sexist
    4. Untrustworthy
    5. Drug abuser

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  • 1. Smoking
    2. Drinking
    3. Being arrogant
    4. Being immature
    5. Being close-minded

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  • 1. Cocky
    2. Drugs
    3. Non adventurous
    4. Mean
    5. Close minded

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  • -wants kids
    -is old af, no offense to older men out there but I just can't fuck with you guys
    -wants marriage
    -is an oversensitive prick
    -isn't open minded and can't take a fucking joke ffs

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  • Can't fucking stand 1. "Call me papi" if I want to I wil if not fuck off
    2. bad hygiene
    3. Being compared to a fucking maid or told to be one hear it daily
    4. Overly sensitive can't joke around with him no humour
    5. Immature selfish people

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  • bad breath
    too much acne
    not spontaneous
    stupid
    fat

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  • 1. Cocky
    2. Liar
    3. Heavy drinker/smoker or does other drugs
    4. Fat
    5. No sense of humor

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  • Smoke
    Mean (no heart)
    Negative
    Clingy
    Bad hygienes

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  • 1. Cheating
    2. Smoking/substance abuse/alcohol - excess
    3. Racist
    4. Sexist
    5. Obnoxious and/or rude

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  • Immaturity
    doesn't listen
    Not humorous
    is a sheep (only follows current fads or the majority)
    no foreplay before sex

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    • I agree with #4. That one is really annoying lol

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