I just found out that my new girlfriend is still friends with her Ed whom she dated for 4 years and broke up with 4 years ago. Is this weird? How would you feel about it? I dated s girl for 7 years and we are not friends and have zero contact since breaking up last summer.
Most Helpful Girl
I would never have contact with an ex. I would never put a new partner in an uncomfortable position like that. I'd feel I was disregarding and disrespecting his feelings. If I was dating a guy who was still in contact with an ex that would be a deal breaker for me. It would make me feel emotionally unsafe.
Personally, I believe if two people who've had a history together can remain friends after a breakup , they were either never in love or they still are.
I thinks it's disrespectful to your new partner , and it just complicates the new relationship. I have boundaries within a relationship so I won't tolerate anything that makes me feel unhappy or uncomfortable... that's the way I am. Everyone views situations differently though. 😊0
Most Helpful Guy
Tell her you're not ok with it.0