Hey, I'm 22 years old and have no knowledge at all when it comes to dating.
I've never took a girl's number nor asked out a girl in my past 22 years because of fears. I want to overcome it, and so I'm reading articles and all they say are the do's and don't that are hard to understand.
For example, they say you shouldn't pay much attention to her.. she is the one to chase you.. and so on stuffs like that
Can someone that has expertise tell me the secret for dating girls for someone that has no clue at all?
Thank you, I really appreciate your help.
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Girls will not chase you, especially with your experience level.
Other than that: clean yourself up, take care of yourself, wear coolish clothes (that you think look good on you, cause they probably will make you feel confident and subsequently you'll look and seem better to others).
Practice, practice, practice talking to girls. Just immerse yourself in girls as much as you can. Try to stop planning what to say; stop thinking so hard, stop over-analyzing. Speak your mind, and let your thoughts flow. If you can't even do this with guys, you can practice with them too. Eventually, you will find people who truly like you, make friends with them, become more confident, and then be able to ask for girls' numbers.
I don't know if I'm doing this part wrong, but I tend to befriend girls with the intention of eventually asking them out, and then I crush on them and never ask them out. So I don't know where I'm going wrong but... just ask girls out as soon as you get the notion.0
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