I've been dating a guy now for 3 months. Since the day we met we didn't flirt or do anything with others and we see eachother 4 times a week, also have sex/sleep together, we text all day and call eachother often. He is really a good guy. So the problem is that he wants a good girl with a "good" past. In the first days we met he asked with how many boys I slept before him and I told him honestly 7. So from that moment he said I dont know if I will accept that but time will show. He is only been in love once in his life and this is the first time after that he is seriously dating a girl/me. So basicly now we are 3 months "together/dating" and he says he has feelings for me and really likes to be with me and If I did not had that past he would make us a relationship but because I do have this past he is not sure. He is scared to give his all and end up thinking he wants a good past girl. He is also scared if he let me go know it will be a mistake. I really do my best and do everything good he knows that. He says 2 years ago he would never even think about dating a girl with such a past so maybe he needs time? What do you guys think? Btw: why 7? I was looking for love in all the wrong places.. This guy really do feels like my first real love and the sex really feels with in love feelings. He also treats me nothing but good and is loyal to me. If I knew I would met this guy I never would slept with 7 guys before him...
Guys, What should I do when he says he dont know if he will accept my past?
What Guys Said 2
Part of it is probably that he's assuming they were casual hookups. If they were 7 serious relationships he might have been more ok.
The number of sexual partners that is considered "too much" is pretty subjective. It varies from guy to guy, everyone has a different tolerance. Generally, just like girls prefer a guy who is the same height or taller or who has the same income or higher, many guys prefer a girl who has a similar sexual past.
A guy who has been with 14 partners would probably see you as a prude.1
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What Girls Said 1
Given time he might get over it0
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