My first wife was very much a party girl. She supposedly "put it behind her". In reality, she only went on hiatus. After our son was about two years old, she missed that past party life enough to go out and "party" with other men. I honestly have no idea how many men she fucked behind my back. I found out later that she even worked as a prostitute for a time.
She abandoned me and our son. I divorced her. I have custody of our son. I have been remarried (happily) for over 9 years.
In that time, she has not had a relationship with a man that was either healthy or lasting longer than 6 months.
They're lying. They don't want a 'good girl' they want one that will have sex with them. They want to MARRY a good girl. But then they'll complain because she's boring. A girl that does all that stuff is definitely not desirable for anything but a pump and dump. That's all she'll get. And she's a fool.
No way. Why would I want a girl that's basically killing her insides with drugs and lots of alcohol? Why would I want a girl who sleeps around? I mean, why would they change lots of guys just for one? Something fishy is going on there.
I don't buy the "I changed" bullshit either. So no, I would certainly not date a girl like this,, wouldn't even consider it.
Okay, I have a very strong opinion on this, only because the past relationship I was in ended because she was a party girl. I am NEVER considering dating a woman who goes out to party as much as these past ones did, 2-3 is in my opinion too much. My last girlfriend partied with a bunch of Frat dudes, did cocaine (which was the nail in the coffin, I left her after I found that out) and fucked two other guys at these parties. Sure, I obviously don't care if they go out every once in awhile to a few parties, but going out 2-3 times a week, drinking with a bunch of horny guys, and doing drugs, is the lowest of the low. That means that they do not care whatsoever about their significant other, which is humiliating. That's my two cents. Never dating a party girl ever again.
As long as it doesn't interfere with her ability to live. If she does these things while living at her parents' house and not doing anything with her life, then definitely nope. Otherwise, sure, it's fine, if we're interested in each other.