http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2008/08/08/does-our-own-attractiveness-affect-our-dating-preferences/ What do you guys think?
can't really say cause I've been with what society says is the ideal women bodys-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/.../...54da3618bf.jpgI've been with the middle data.whicdn.com/images/21651943/original.pngand the bigs-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/.../...7bc5a18e10.jpghonestly if I find her attractive I will fuck her
That is the term: attractive. I don't think body size overpowers what is considered attractive. Would you consider yourself attractive?
you tell me I can't judge myself I think Im ugly when it really comes down too it
Well would you say the women you've dated have been of equal attractiveness?
some have been very attractive, some have been okay, some I gave a chance but they weren't the best looking girls out there
why do you wanna know
I want to know because it either enforces the matching hypothesis or goes against it
well it is pretty logical attractive guy attractive girl come together its expected
No, not really. Because before recently it was common to see beautiful women with not attractive men. Or beautiful men with not attractive women, I mean butterfaces is a term for a reason.
But to some degree. The percentage of seeing those mismatched couples is low... You do see couples who both often look a like; like siblings at times.
I think people who like siblings is rare at least where I've been. Men with butterfaces is pretty real. Maybe body wise yea, face wise nope.. nope
No not people who like siblings. I am saying that sometimes you see couples who look like siblings, even if they are not. I think that is proof that people do date in their range of attractiveness. Other times, yes they date butterfaces (but it is rare)
Auto correct, did that I meant looked like. But I never see people who look equal in looks but that may just be my perspective.
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I think a lot of people pair up on their level, physically and mentally
Makes sense. People with similar mentality, beliefs, values, personality traits, etc
I thought this was obvious? Who you choose to date is always reflection of yourself and how you feel about yourself
Mhmmm I don't know because I get told that I am beautiful but i feel ugly at times and insecure. My first and only boyfriend I thought he was cute. And people say he looks like a model and is good looking. So how would it be possible for me to date someone that reflect what i feel about myself
You just said you feel ugly "at times" which means it's not a regular feeling and there are more times you feel good about yourself.
Yeah. It is just my inner voice that makes me doubt myself. Even though i get complimented mostly
Now that I think about it it's kinda true lol the guys that I actually would date are good looking but not like a lot. For example im sure that not all friends would see them as cute as i see them. What do you think?
I think in a sense they do. Like my first boyfriend and I, we dated. We were both from different races but both of us were considered a beautiful and attractive couple. Even though I do have self esteem issues. BUt there is also that small percentage that date people who are not of equal attractiveness
So do you think you were as good looking as your 1st boyfriend? Because that's what I'm thinking about the guys that I would date but I don't know if I'm as Good looking as they are. I don't know of it's because of self esteem issues too so I can't tell on my own. I have had other girls say that I am cute but I just don't see it?
I guess. I wouldn't know. BUt judging on all the comments people made on us both. We were beautiful hahha but i think i need to work on my self esteem issues