FIVE years, and no proposal. We talk about marriage and kids. We are on the same page as wanting to get married and have our careers going, but no ring. Sometime i want to cut off contact and sex so he could be appreciative of my absense a bit more, and want to pursue me. Is that osmething I should do? Cut of sex for a bit or every now and then. I guess what I am refering to is "Why buy the cow, when you can get the milk for free."
Girl wants ring/comittment, guy says "No, why?, not ready= Well WTF.
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I understand 5 years is a lot, but then again you got together when you were teens, it still doesn't change that you're 21, and its okay not to be engaged at 21. I don't think think sex/contact should depend on whether not he proposes... thats cruel. IF that was the case you shouldn't have had sex to begin with, I've always said the worst thing you can do is deprive your lover of sex out of anger. Have you thought maybe he can't afford the ring he wants to get you? He wants to be financially stable before you go off and start planning a wedding, rings and weddings cost so much.1