We opened up a little about our pasts and it seemed to bother him that I told him I had sex with black guys before I fell for him. He asked a lot of questions and it just didn't seem comfortable. He has been with more girls than I have been with guys so why is he having an issue?
we men are naturally inclined to a bit of tribalism, and in the usa, there is inherent hostility between whites and blacks which has gotten a lot heavier in the past couple of years. in sex, a woman is to a degree, kind of possessed by the man. i mean, some feminists have decried all p in v as rape, as the woman is literally being penetrated and fucked.
as racial hostility increases across the usa (and damn, i got multiple lessons in how much blacks hate whites this summer) a white girl sleeping with black guys is akin to sleeping with the enemy.
Blunt truth that most people are too gutless to explain to you? Yes.
Because there are white guys who feel insecure and don't think they can measure up to black guys. It's crazy actually. I don't give a shit who my future girlfriend has been with in the past as long as she was safe and used protection. Also some men think about dicks way more than any heterosexual should lol
People will tell you he's jealous or insecure. But look around at the number of black supremacist idiots who love to yell about how much white bitches worship those ugly mofos, and how inferior white men are... It gets to you after awhile, plus its just gross when a chick is a nasty ghetto groupie.
He maybe insecure, he may feel black men are inferior, he may feel as though you're settling for him as some women will happily fool around with Black guys but then when they want to settle down they choose the guy of the same race as them.