We opened up a little about our pasts and it seemed to bother him that I told him I had sex with black guys before I fell for him. He asked a lot of questions and it just didn't seem comfortable. He has been with more girls than I have been with guys so why is he having an issue?
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I really believe this is mainly about perceived cock size.
Have you ever heard of guys freaking out because their girlfriend slept with an Asian guy before they dated? No.
That's nice that you say you don't care. That's not what he wants to hear. What he wants to hear is no, they weren't bigger, not 'oh sure they had much bigger cocks then you but i really like you'
How a woman sees a guy -sexually- is hugely important to how he feels about the relationship. He doesn't want to be just okay and loved, he wants to be mind blowing and amaze you.2