So there's this girl who lives across the hall from me in college. We have become decent friends over the past few months but there has been a sexual tension between us. I have started to develop feelings for her and I think that she has maybe done the same with me. She seems to have gotten attached (she comes over like 5-10 times a day to hang out, and doesn't stay long if I am not there) but I am not sure in what way. Anyway, the other night she was over and it was really flirty and everything. Then, when she was laughing, she told me "I am not laughing at anything you did, just something Kyle said at dinner" (Kyle (a guy) is the roommate of one of her friends). Then she gave me a long stare with a small grin. I am kinda confused why she would say something like that to me? Is she trying to give me a hint? Why would she be so flirty with me and then say that? Thanks!!
Most Helpful Girl
It might mean nothing. It could just have been an innocent comment that she didn't intend to have any hidden meaning behind it. But she does seem interested in you from what I gather. One thing I know some women will do it name drop other men in front of the guy they like in order to show that they hang around other guys and other guys want to be around them. It's a way to seem less like they are desperate and more like they are desirable. Kinda weird but it can be effective. So yeah, she might be, but it also might be nothing. I wouldn't dwell too much on it. I hope this helped :)0
Most Helpful Guy
"I'm am not laughing at anything you did, just something Kyle said at dinner." From this, I assume Kyle jokingly mentioned you to her. Perhaps he jokingly analyzed the situation between you and her, et cetera. And, while with you, it was on her mind, which caused her to laugh.
But, who knows.
Nonetheless, considering her actions in totality, she seems very much into you. Thus, I simply suggest you don't much stock into her comment about Kyle and focus on closing the deal.
Close the deal!0