This guy I know asked me out, he is really nice and we're friends but he's extremely overweight. he's obese. I feel really shallow because the reason I don't want to date him is because of his weight and I'm just not attracted him.
Most Helpful Guy
There is no obligation to date anyone. He probably has some self esteem issues as is so I do hope you let him down easy at least. I think we all get that it probably took a lot of guts for him to ask you out. So obese or not, he is one brave fellow.
But no, don't feel bad about it. And more importantly, treat him as you did before. Don't let his, rather flattering, interest in you be something that ruins what could be a valuable friendship.3
Most Helpful Girl
been there, you feel like a bad person but you are not. sometimes you feel attracted to someone and sometimes you dont. like yes it might seem like you are a bad person but you can't just date him: being in a relationship or something does mean you have to have sex with him one day.. urg.2