This guy I know asked me out, he is really nice and we're friends but he's extremely overweight. he's obese. I feel really shallow because the reason I don't want to date him is because of his weight and I'm just not attracted him.
Then he asked me why I wouldn't date him and he went "Is it because I'm fat?" And I lied and said no 😞
There is no obligation to date anyone. He probably has some self esteem issues as is so I do hope you let him down easy at least. I think we all get that it probably took a lot of guts for him to ask you out. So obese or not, he is one brave fellow.
But no, don't feel bad about it. And more importantly, treat him as you did before. Don't let his, rather flattering, interest in you be something that ruins what could be a valuable friendship.
been there, you feel like a bad person but you are not. sometimes you feel attracted to someone and sometimes you dont. like yes it might seem like you are a bad person but you can't just date him: being in a relationship or something does mean you have to have sex with him one day.. urg.
No - you can date who you want. If you're not attracted to him you're not attracted. Nothing you can do to change it. Better than continuing to go out with him, knowing full well you're not into it, and leading him on in the process.
There was once this girl I hung out with as friends. We went to the beach one night and she kept insisting I sit next to her on the bench. Sorry, but I wasn't gonna waste my first kiss on her. She was obese.
It's only bad for him. Most women are extremely shallow, so you shouldn't run into any social pressure because of this, and knowing how shallow you are, this is probably all you're worried about anyway.
Well no you can't feel terrible for not being attracted to him, and I don't think you should've put your feelings aside just to accept an invitation that you wouldn't be comfortable with in the first place.