We've been friends for a year and I've been in love with him for nearly as long. Couldn't take it any more and confessed, he rejected me. Said that he "wasn't interested". Just for closure I asked about his reasons, suggested that maybe I wasn't " his type", but he said that wasn't the case. He said that he didn't want a relationship right now as he's recently divorced and that, when he does he'll be looking at marriage (he's quite religious). So to make it easy I suggested to him that maybe he wasn't attracted to me which he was also kind of vague about, and said "not in that way... But you're an attractive woman". That last bit confused me. If you find someone attractive, get on well (as we do), click and have chemistry why reject them? Of course he could have been lying about the attractive thing but I don't think so. He's not the type to lie, and I often do get told I'm attractive so I just don't understand... !
Most Helpful Guy
not necessary cause of looks , there is many other reasons someone might not want to date someone. it could be how her past relationships ended or were like , her personality , her income , the number of sexual partners she has had already , I don't know is a lot of reasons I could list that don't involve looks3
Most Helpful Girl
No it can be for many reason!0