It seems like all guys want the type of girls who are fast. What about us quiet ones you see in class but you don't know our names. Why not us? Do you think we're not interested because we aren't out there like that?
Depends on the guy. You're 18 so lots of guys just want to bust their nut and move on. Just give it some time, be yourself and you'll find a good one. Also don't be afraid to make the first move! Maybe there is a quiet guy who could be interested but he's too nervous to say anything. U never kno.
Guys don't know if a girl likes them unless she is practicly throwing herself at him, unless the woman likes another guy then everyone else can tell. The other issue is I think quite guys are attracted to quite girls but since niethr make a move both parties feel like the other is not interested and both feel the sting of rejection before they even make a move. You might just need to put yourself out a little more, but believe me plenty of guys like the quite girls (I am not a fan of the party girl myself).
The quiet ones are always, ALWAYS, the ones you have to watch out for in my opinion. And usually the most sexual as well. It's like there is so much sensual energy just waiting to explode on you once you get to them in that way and trigger it. Plus, they probably have so many fun things sensual and sexual that they are wanting to do, if given the chance, it might scare the hell out of some. I love the quiet ones. And you/they are only quiet because no one talks to you/them if you ask me. Most of them have the hottest bodies too and know what to do with it and to yours or have thought about what to do to yours because they fantasize and try so much on their own. Nah man... The quiet ones, they are hidden GEMS and sex fiends!!! So, I'm not sure why not? Maybe because quiet ones seem unapproachable because you don't know what to approach them with or how to actually talk to them or what their interests are. Because you never heard a peep from them. But, if I find you attractive and I want to get with you, I'll try my best to see what makes you tick somehow.
It's frustrating to see it that way. But you have to understand, would you take the time on a guy who doesn't show you any interest? Wouldn't you feel like you're annoying the guy, or he's too hard to talk to, or even bored? I'm quite reserved myself. But I also had to learn that no girl would know I'm interested or take the chance to show she may be, unless I conveyed it.
To be honest, it has to do more with my own insecurity. I actually prefer the shyer, quieter girls, but I'm extra afraid to approach them because I don't want to come off as rape-y or weird since I'm not as experienced with girls. At least the prettier, popular ones seem a bit more approachable, even if I'm most likely going to be rejected.