#1: Are you around more white than black guys? If yes, there's yr answer.
#2: What do you do? How do you dress? Where do you hang out? How do you talk? Same 4 questions, for the white guys around you? Same 4 questions, for the black guys around you?
My almost-13-year-old son is a little heartthrob. He's a brown kid of ambiguous ethnicity, but the black girls are most forward with their love for him. But, this makes total sense, because he talks with a bit of his daddy's accent, he spits freestyle rhymes, he's a crack hip-hop and break dancer, and all that. (He has about the same number of black and white friends.)