I just met this new guy and we went out on a date. The date went wonderfully, I'm very physically attracted to him and he seems near perfect. However, for some reason, I just can't shake or understand this weird vibe I'm getting from him. It's a bad vibe, and at first I thought it might have been some butterflies. But it's more of an anxious sickness, the kind you get when you know something bad is about to happen. But I can't tell if its just my anxiety (because it's been awhile and he's a brand new guy) or if my subconscious is picking up on something and I should be running for the hills.
Overall he's honestly a really sweet person with fantastic ambition. He seems a lot more genuine than a lot of guys. But I feel like there's something in his eyes that bothers me. I really just don't know. I just feel weirdly uncomfortable. Almost like... not safe?
I've never felt this way with a guy before. Not even with guys that made it clear their only intention was to sleep with me.
Do you think I'm just being paranoid or something or should I not ignore this feeling and stop talking to him? I'd feel really bad though because we REALLY hit it off physically at least and like 70% of me likes him as a person. It's just this weird, negative vibe. And I really don't get it because he's an extremely optimistic, fun loving person...
Continue to date him until you see reason not to. As you said, you don't really know him well and it's a new relationship. If he does some weird or bad shit, then you can get out. Until then, get to know him better.
It's hard to say. Usually, people should follow their intuition. I guess all I can say is keep your best guard up until the feeling goes away. Even then, you should always keep your guard up somewhat. There's a good chance that the bad feeling is something you need to heed to.