So actual input would be nice. None of that dump his ass bullshit. That does nobody any good. With that being said he's part of the story. My husband keeps cheating on me. However it's not physically, it's through texting other girls who know he is married. Sending him pictures some nude. And contacting him constantly he said it's done and he quit doing it he was just having a hard time because I've been pushing him away not purposely.. I am currently going through some serious ptsd and depression. I've been going to counseling and the doctors to get help, all that jazz. No I'm not going to kill myself or threaten him if he doesn't stop. I'm not that kind of person. However he's still remaining contact and I know checking his phone is wrong.. I honestly was just trying to send a picture to myself from his phone which should be harmless but obviously wasn't.. he knows I don't believe in divorce.. however I'm lost on how to deal with this. Counseling is an option but sometimes that can make things worse. Couples make it through this and it this point I still want to be one of them.. help?
Counseling.. make it better or worse?
What Guys Said 2
Yes I would explore every avenue to resolve this but remember he has to want you as much as you want him.3
What Girls Said 1
Youu should work on you first before working on the marriage. That's the only way things would get better for you both. What is bothering you to where you're depressed and can't feel happy within yourself because if you're not happy with yourself there's no way you could make him happy.1
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