So, if you catch your best friend and girlfriend together, who do you blame for the cheating?
There may be more involvement than I'm just laying out there, but, first thought- Who's to blame for this inconvenient situation.
- Your Best FriendVote A
- Your GirlfriendVote B
- Both of themVote C
- YourselfVote D
- NobodyVote E
Most Helpful Girl
I'd blame both of them. But if I was to forgive and give another chance to anyone, it would be my best friend. You could probably forgive your girlfriend in time, but if she cheated on you, you deserve better than that in a gf, and she shouldn't be given another chance to do it again to you. A friend however, (of course you deserve better from the to) but if it was me and they showed that they were sorry, id forgive them, because they're your bff for a reason, they're gonna b there for you always. I'd reassess how much they really respect the friendship and if I can trust them again, but the thing is, if they were going to do that to you again, I think it would be easier for me to let them go out of my life than a girlfriend who has betrayed me again. (I'd be angry at myself for letting someone hurt me like that again). I don't think you should blame yourself for this, no matter if there are problems, no one should ever do that to someone they care about (or ever) your girlfriend should of confronted you about her feelings. But if you let it happen again by giving her another chance, id blame myself for that, not because she cheated but because I let my self get hurt again. However you really are the judge of these things, trust your instincts.0