Hi just wanted a guys view.
If you start having regular 1-2 times a week sex with a woman do you get emotionally attached to her or is it sometimes just the fun of the sex and perhaps don't have loving feelings towards the woman?
The reason I ask is that I'm seeing a guy who I believe is viewing me as a casual hookup, I'm starting to develop feelings for him, as us women do when we have regular sex with someone. I'm getting the vibe he's not forming such an attachment but enjoys my company and the sex. What I'm asking is that if this continues this way for a lot longer will he develop any feelings for me or see me as a bit of fun? He says I'm perfect for him, he's crazy for me, as in fun sense but he can't say he will commit to me fully as I have children and he doesn't want to children. I'm frightened I'm gonna get hurt but I'm enjoying his attention and personality so much I can't move on.
If he develops feelings would that change do you think?
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It depends, if he is only dependent on you for sex. Or if he actually wants to have sex with you really. Like say I find you attractive and smart and funny and that is why I enjoy having sex with you because it's a good time and we have sex all the time chances are I like you a lot but won't show it for multiple reasons. Not wanting to break the taboo on the whole friends with benefits thing. But if my choices are limited so I have sex with you because I'm dependent, or if my ego is inflated so I do it because I can then it's not likely that I will fall for you right...
I mean sex is just sex it doesn't mean anything has to be involved but if you feel nothing for your partner after sex you probably are not mature emotionally.
For me it is really all about cuddling and staying the night. It makes it hard not to develop feelings for a girl when we sleep together and cuddle and stuff like that.2