I'm out of a long term relationship for about 4 months now. He shattered My heart into pieces but I've finally accepted I need to move on even though I still love and care for my ex boyfriend. I've been on two dates with this guy (going on my third date today) but he is really sexually forward? We haven't had sex but he has tried and I feel he might try again today. I'm not looking for a relationship tbh but not sure if I'm comfortable having sex with someone this soon? He's asked me to a ball next week and I'm afraid in case I reject him again it will make things awkward next week. I'm attracted to him but not sure if I'm sexually attracted to him yet or maybe its because I'm still not over my ex. What should I do? Me and the guy I'm dating are both in our twenties, I'm not sure if its just sex he wants or is it normal for guys to be this forward so soon?
Back in the dating game, is this normal?
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there's a possibility you're sending mixed signals because in your head/heart you're still not sure about what you want out of this guy, if you want a rebound, if you just want to feel 'desired' by someone again, or if it's for something long term. I see how this could be confusing for a guy, even if his intentions were genuine. maybe you should just stop dating for a little bit more until you're 100% sure you're over your ex boyfriend, also to make sure you'd be eventually ready just for casual sex1
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