This girl heard about me through a friend and wanted to meet me in spite of the fact that I am leaving interstate next week.
I was truly mesmerised by her and didn't want it to just disappear when I leave interstate, and I didn't think we'd be able to see each other again because we're both so busy, so I felt pressured and said "long distance relationships are hard, but I'm willing to risk it for someone as special as you".
There was a quick hug and she wanted to run away after that! I said "I don't normally rush things like this, but I"m only saying this because I don't think we can see each other before I leave as we're both busy, so I thought I'd tell you what's on my chest right now".
2 days later, no text, so I sent a follow up text in a very neutral tone - "it was great meeting you the other day. Have a great day".
Still no reply the next day.
What can I do?
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Maybe she's had second thoughts. You said to her, "long distance relationships are hard, but I'm willing to risk it for someone as special as you". so she may have meditated on that thought, and realised that long- distance relationships need twice the effort. So doesn't want to risk the effort incase it's too much pressure for her.
If she likes you a lot she might think that the
short-. term hurt of not pursuing a relationship with you will is better than going through the long- term pain she'd face if it didn't work out. 😊
On the other hand, she might still respond to you. She might have genuine reasons for her not messaging you yet. 😊0
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