Me and my bestfriend, Kyle, have known eachother for a while now even through Middle School, High School and now College. A girl I had a crush on, Julia, back in High School was in the same College as us so we went over to say hello to her. Kyle is a very good-looking guy way better looking than me and well is a player and has had a lot of GF's as I only had one ever. Now back in High School Julia and Kyle went out for a day but Kyle broke up with her and i knew she had a big crush on him. Now that we were in College I asked her out thinking her crush for him was over (Yes I know I'm fuckn stupid) to my surprise she said yes. She was so smart and beautiful we would do everything together and had the most up beat smiles that I was 100% sure she was loyal. Now one day I was going on a trip to New Zealand to visit my family there and as i was driving i remembered i forgot my Passport and Plane ticket in my apartment. I drove back went into my apartment and as i was grabbing my stuff i heard strange noises coming from the room which i found weird. When i went there i stood there shocked and i instantly regreted it what i saw was my girlfriend and bestfriend both naked while my girlfriend was sucking him off under the blanket. I was so pissed off man i mean Kyle could have every chick in the world literally and he chooses my girlfriend and Julia i thought she was loyal but i guess not. Finally Kyle seen me and freaked but i didn't care i beat the shit out of him while julia was screaming at me as i finished she said it was a mistake blah blah blah i said how could it be a mistake when you were happily sucking his di*k. I told her and Kyle to put on some clothes, get their stuff and leave since i have a job and pay the bills for the house. Now Julia has been sending me a lot of textes saying she's sorry and that but i just simply ignore it the same goes for Kyle. But I dont know what to do I'm suffering from an emotional turmoil its just so painful to even think about it.
Most Helpful Girl
I am sure it was not mistake. I understand how you feel but everything has positive side. You can't changed what happened, however, you can see it from another angle.
Lots of people waste years before they find out if they have a good friend or if they've chosen a right girl.
Thanks to your passport and plane ticket you guessed that none of them were loyal and sincere to you.
Don't believe them, such mistakes just don't happen, i'm sure they regret but that's the way they should be, they deserved to be ignored by you.
You do not need friend who can't control his thing, you do not need a girlfriend who takes a chance on your absence.
And yes, do not blame yourself.
What should you do? Life goes on just without them. Try to find new friends, this time real ones.
And remember everything even the worst thing that happens to us may have positive effect.0
Most Helpful Guy
You made the right choice, now stick to it and I am happy you beat that fucker. I think they are doing it from the long time whenever you are out and they had the chance. She cheated on you, lets suppose you forgive her but She will cheat on you again when She got the chance and Yes sucking dick is "NO" mistake,
Now you can find plenty of women complaining about serious relationships but that's what they actually are, use the blocker it will put the stop to her texts and never ever forgive her.2