Its true, nice guys enter the dating competition too late. Im sorry for not being born a jerk and for being a shy awkward guy, but none of this was intentional. It's the way I've always been and unfortunately, women hate these traits in a guy. :( Will i have to force myself change? probably
Im still working on getting my first date and first girlfriend, but Im beginning to think it just isn't going to work because I have no past experiences while most of my friends already are married. how many people (especially nice guys) think this is true?
You are not alone. There are plenty of guys in a similar age range dealing with the same thing. As a guy especially you have plenty of time. At least you don't have the whole childbirth thing hanging over your head. Don't give up hope.
I hope it ain't true because then I'd be fuuuuuuucked. I'm sure if you fake this shit like you've been doing it since birth then it might work out. We base our perceptions on what we see on the surface of other people. Control your surface expression and you control people's perceptions.
Nice people only finish last if they are pushovers and don't set boundaries. I consider myself as " nice", but I don't allow anyone to take advantage of me. I have my limits and I set standards for myself.
Most women want a nice guy who is assertive , and someone who won't allow other people to walk all over them.
If you want different results in your life then you either have to do something different to what you usually do or change how you respond to It. Life does get better by chance it gets better by change. So look for different approaches to dating.