Being able to sleep on her lap. Let your guard down, when you are usually a straight-faced, manly kinda guy.
But you are able to act like a baby with her sometimes. Is that significant to you? Is it really that hard to find women you are able to be vulnerable and comfortable with?
Most Helpful Guy
It's important for me to be able to be myself around my girlfriend, if that includes me feeling vulnerable, then yes and she needs to understand that, just like I'm there for her if she's feeling that way.
As for what you say in your post, I'd say they are less vulnerabilities and more just normal parts of being in a relationship i. e. intimacy. And no I wouldn't say it's difficult, apart from the fact that almost all the women I've been out with seem to want to be dominated. Sometimes they need to let us have a night off from being men :D1
Most Helpful Girl
Coming from a girls perspective I feel trusted when my boyfriend can be vulnerable with me. But also, I can understand if he might not want to be totally open with me. It's hard to let someone in when all you know is about getting betrayed. I like to wait a little bit for him to let me in. I don't like to push him to tell me anything. Just like I wouldn't want to be pushed if I didn't trust him fully yet. Ya know what I mean?0