Hello, there's a girl that I'm highly attracted to. We sit next to each other in science class and all, so we talked like for a whole semester lol.
Nevertheless, I've asked her out and told me that she already has a boyfriend. I'm really attracted to this girl like really I can't think about someone else. She is totally in my mind, but I do not want to ruin her relationship for a selfish reason.
Hoping that you can provide me guidance in this situation,
Most Helpful Girl
There's nothing that you can do. If she's in a relationship with someone else, then it's incredibly inappropriate to attempt to do anything with her. Not only does it disrespect her as she's already told you no, but it also disrespects her partner. Your only choices are to remain friends with her and ignore your feelings, or distance yourself from her and leave her alone.2
Most Helpful Guy
The way I see it you have 2 options.
Option A, become her friend and wait for her boyfriend to fuck up. A shoulder to cry becomes a dick to ride (in some cases)
Option B, the one I would take, move on, find someone else to crush on. Life is too short to wait for someone that might never be available.0
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