Try to turn it around and honestly think how you would respond? Not everyone thinks the same way though, so even then it might not be a helpful exercise. Honestly speaking, women will often make a decision about a guy within the first few seconds to minutes of a date. I've only had one woman honestly tell me in the beginning of a date that she didn't think it was going to work out. It was awkward as hell, but I genuinely appreciated it. Kudos to her. The thing to realize though is that she is the exception, not the rule. Most women who have mentally removed a guy from the "I'm interested" column will continue to try to enjoy the date anyway. As guys, our ego will often tell us this is a positive sign that she is into us. So the first step is realizing that the first date is only for sizing up interest, not a guaranteed sign of it. The second thing to realize is that while most people want to avoid rejection, they also want to avoid rejecting. Especially women for a number of reasons. If she mentally rejected you, she simply found it easier to let you know by removing you from her social life in order to not have to deal with rejecting you. Especially if in her past she has rejected someone and they resisted with whining, begging, stalking etc... So is it immature? Maybe. But ask yourself this: If you weren't into a girl after a date and she texted you several times, would you honestly respond, or would you avoid the text? Same principle and we are all guilty of it sometimes I think.
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