I know lots of pretty or hot women, and men just run away from them- I find it weird. I'm hot myself, and have the same issues- guys act weird, it's hard to meet a guy etc. I walked into a restaurant today- i did it last week. The owner purposely ignored me last time, this time he could barely say hello to me, like he was so intimidated. Then two guys from the back came and one was freaking out, another dropped something and was almost putting on a show being weird. None ever even said 'hi' to me, or welcome to the store, nothing. Men never ask me out, and date I go on, the guys try to dominate me. I usually dress average, and I don't dress up... I've had a few guys say "you're so hot"!! or "you're a 10"!! but they were psychos and users... why are guys so mean to pretty women and treat them this way- or any woman. what can a woman do to deal with it.
no i dont dress slutty- i dress pretty average with jeans and an average outfit- if you're hot it doesn't matter what u wear. I never wear make up- very rarely i'll wear one thing tha'ts it. im really nice/normal and friendly. I don't really get it
i dont believe in 'ratings' i think it's stupid. i'll admit there are some women I think who are intimidating- i dont think i am at all, but some guys do. im down to earth and petite and not stuck up.. it makes no sense. maybe men don't think they're good enough, who knows
i will say tho oddly, celebrities seem to 'love' me.. on some other level.. celebrities treat me like im someone 'great' and give me all this attention.. men and women. Men in general are scared of me and celebs almost act like theyre fans of me or try to get my attention in some way--i find it odd... maybe celebs are confident enough b/c theyre so big.. and only people taht confident can get with someone like me..
you were born a leader. they assume that. its your genes. i know cus im a 10 or 12 i only go for those 10s or 12s. i have the exact same problems as u. i dont appraoch women though im shy. i didn't grow up confidently at all. i was at first but there were circumstances. i dont know what its like being a women but women i dont think are personally held back maybe professionally, but i know that people tried to get in my way of being myself because of my looks. this is the reason theyl try to dominate you male or women doesn't matter you are competition i do want a hot woman i want my equal i actualyl feel more worthy or a "10 or 12" forgive the crassness? bcus were made for each other. and they know that they recognize it instantly thats the reason only 10-12 hot women ever signal me i think i remember a women who had the body of a 6 and face of an 8/9 quite attractive, i only remember 1 - just one of them ever signaling me and she appraoched me. other women who are not a 8-12 dont even look at me. i may have great genes but i still went through a lot of crap and my confidence is shot. there are gorgeous women who have gone through a lof of abuse i know I've seen it and they watch me. they would probably reject me bcus they know that its unlikely i would choose them bcus of their sketchy choices in men and theyve resigned themselves. they wouldn't stay w me even if i chose them they would resent me, they no longer feel worthy of their dreams and its better to reject those dreams than painfully resurrect them. i admit its painful for me, but there's a lot of fish in the sea. the reasons are just as other people say normal reasons just like any other people. genetically we may be of similar quality and pairings but circumstancially, many people have gone through a lot. there are a lot of gorgeous men and women who are very confident and many gorgeous men and women who aren't. i suggest small encouraging supportive stranger signals. u never really know a person till you really know a person. i beleive many women are very intimidated by me but manage to hide it well... they hide it well...
Okay Ignoring the "rating people", as you admit you are a very pretty person. What today is considered the "Average" man will instantly degrade themselves and say she deserves better. Part of it is intimidation. It's like when they say, if you can't afford it don't bother looking at it. That's what many people do, the put into consideration all those things a decide to walk away rather try. People are at their best when they are comfortable so when they do go on dates they are intimidated and try their try excessively to impress which can make them clumsy. You will find the one for you one day even if he's not a 10 aslong as you like him and he likes you is what really counts
HUH? I always gravitate to the hot women but also have gal-next-door friends as well, both have something special to offer. Hot gals can intimidate guys that have been shot down routinely. They also are hit on during dates, making their dates uncomfortable, inexperienced with what to do. Introverts don't like the whole restaurant staring at "them". Hot gals arouse the little head, even to erections... this pest then screws with the big head bugging it to say something to make her satisfy IT... weird things come out of big head mouths!
Be the gal-next-door, dress normal, smile at your selections, be nice when they trip over their tongues, complement, make them feel good about selves, ask for help
Do think it's easy to approach beautiful women? You are not a guy so you will never understand what the guys been through to approach beautiful women... have you taken into consideration that those guys intimidated by beautiful women took a lot of rejections when they decided to approach a beautiful women... I don't blame them of course... you know it is not easy what you think read this take so you will have an idea www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a9876-why-you-women-don-t-get-approached-or-asked-out
It's not so much that we don't want them as much as it is that we're intimidated by them. Believe it or not, but men can be pretty insecure creatures on a level comparable to even women. So when we see an amazingly attractive woman, we often figure that she is out of our league so we don't even try asking her out.
Most guys rate themselves lower than that and most guys are calculating and realize most 10 women don't want a 7 guy, why? Because a 10 woman can get a 10 guy instead. So the the 7 guy is just going to be wasting his time and getting his heart broken. Therefore they stay away, make no effort.
probably they want to show off, cause as u stated they are intimidated. they probably thing they are no match for you, so they try too hard and become weird or they give up and flee. i think most people however dont ask you out, caus ethey think you already have someone
most girls like you are stuck up snobs who want nothing to do with average guys. You only go for preppy fags who grew up in a wealthy family, the rest of us don't exist to girls like you. You'd never give us the time of day so why would we talk to you?
You can't just walk in a place and expect "The Right Guy" to just jump on you. You have to get to know people, establish relations, and proceed further where the desires and intentions are mutual while you're also compatible.
I think because most hot women have high standards and are very proud and arrogant. And a hot woman would be too stressful to be with, the amount of attention she will get off other men. It would be a nightmare. I ignore hot women and allow the ass holes to have them instead.