I know lots of pretty or hot women, and men just run away from them- I find it weird. I'm hot myself, and have the same issues- guys act weird, it's hard to meet a guy etc. I walked into a restaurant today- i did it last week. The owner purposely ignored me last time, this time he could barely say hello to me, like he was so intimidated. Then two guys from the back came and one was freaking out, another dropped something and was almost putting on a show being weird. None ever even said 'hi' to me, or welcome to the store, nothing. Men never ask me out, and date I go on, the guys try to dominate me. I usually dress average, and I don't dress up... I've had a few guys say "you're so hot"!! or "you're a 10"!! but they were psychos and users... why are guys so mean to pretty women and treat them this way- or any woman. what can a woman do to deal with it.
no i dont dress slutty- i dress pretty average with jeans and an average outfit- if you're hot it doesn't matter what u wear. I never wear make up- very rarely i'll wear one thing tha'ts it. im really nice/normal and friendly. I don't really get it
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you were born a leader. they assume that. its your genes. i know cus im a 10 or 12 i only go for those 10s or 12s. i have the exact same problems as u. i dont appraoch women though im shy. i didn't grow up confidently at all. i was at first but there were circumstances. i dont know what its like being a women but women i dont think are personally held back maybe professionally, but i know that people tried to get in my way of being myself because of my looks. this is the reason theyl try to dominate you male or women doesn't matter you are competition i do want a hot woman i want my equal i actualyl feel more worthy or a "10 or 12" forgive the crassness? bcus were made for each other. and they know that they recognize it instantly thats the reason only 10-12 hot women ever signal me i think i remember a women who had the body of a 6 and face of an 8/9 quite attractive, i only remember 1 - just one of them ever signaling me and she appraoched me. other women who are not a 8-12 dont even look at me. i may have great genes but i still went through a lot of crap and my confidence is shot. there are gorgeous women who have gone through a lof of abuse i know I've seen it and they watch me. they would probably reject me bcus they know that its unlikely i would choose them bcus of their sketchy choices in men and theyve resigned themselves. they wouldn't stay w me even if i chose them they would resent me, they no longer feel worthy of their dreams and its better to reject those dreams than painfully resurrect them. i admit its painful for me, but there's a lot of fish in the sea. the reasons are just as other people say normal reasons just like any other people. genetically we may be of similar quality and pairings but circumstancially, many people have gone through a lot. there are a lot of gorgeous men and women who are very confident and many gorgeous men and women who aren't. i suggest small encouraging supportive stranger signals. u never really know a person till you really know a person. i beleive many women are very intimidated by me but manage to hide it well... they hide it well...1
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