I'm in college and no guy has ever approached me and talked to me before (it could even be as friends) , does that mean I'm ugly or there's something wrong with me? Because I can't think of an explaination why all my other friends that are girls have guy friends but I don't and they've also dated someone before but I haven't. So is there something wrong with me? What should I do? I'm 18 by the way
- No there isn't something wrong with youVote A
- Yes there something wrong with youVote B
Most Helpful Guy
It's actually harder for me to initiate a first conversation with someone I find attractive, especially if they are quiet around others. Are you shy and quiet? If you are... relaxing and opening up a bit will make it a lot less difficult for someone to approach you. Smile at people, and show your personality a bit.
Shyness isn't a bad thing, but it can make it more intimidating for someone to strike up a first conversation with you. This could be because no one knows what you are thinking, if you are friendly or not, if they'd get along with you... many reasons.0
Most Helpful Girl
No, not everyone has the time to come up and talk on campus, I know for myself I'm always in a hurry or on my way home etc. Have they dated people from school or going out?0