I cheated on him, I feel terrible. I wish I could take it back. I haven't told him yet (it happened last night) and we are in a long distant relationship (we live 32 hours away from eachother) I don't want him to leave me, but I feel like he most likely will. Every wed. and fri. we Skype with eachother because it's our only free time, which I was thinking of telling him then. Should I wait till wed. when we are skyping to tell him or text him it now? I feel like telling him face to face is better than a text message. And I can't call him, so that's out of the picture.
If I was him I'd prefer to be told by text now, than face to face tomorrow, it's not something I'd like to be waiting for, though face to face is better, but again, it's too important, it can't wait.
But tell him, don't listen to those who tell you not to. You fucked up, and you say you feel "terrible", which means you "regret" it, so at least once, do the right thing, act like an adult, and tell him.
It does not matter if you were to tell him now or later.. I think he will drop you like a rock anyways when he does find out.. cheating to me is not something anyone should do and the person that takes the cheater back.. should maybe take up the proffesion of brick laying.. as you or him are a few bricks short of a load.. just my opinion.. but think about it
Tell him now because you were unfaithful and he deserves to know. If he leaves you then he leaves you, you'll just have to deal with the consequences of your actions. If you want to see if you can have a full blown discussion about it Wednesday when you Skype then do that, but he should know now.
You should certainly tell him as soon as possible. If you can find the time to text him that should be enough time for the two of you to Skype. The longer you wait the less likely you'll say something. He is deserving of the truth and whether or not he leaves you is something he has the right to decide. You were already selfish enough to hurt him, keeping this from him is only going to make things worse. If he leaves you he leaves you, but he NEEDS to hear the truth.