I feel like every man has done with a specific woman, but girls, do you like a guy who chases you? If he is the persistent enough, the guy always believes that the woman will eventually change her mind and have a revelation, that revelation being that the guy is the right person for her. I've seen guys pine after a girl for years hoping for this breakthrough!
And when you answer this question, don't think idealistcally about it. Think in reality. I know as a guy, I've had girls do this to me. I'm a good guy, but when this happens, I think less of the girl. Attraction is instantly loss. Sad as it is, it still happens, and I feel like this is the typical response. It has nothing to do with being a good or bad person. It's almost a reflex to find this person less appealing. So objectively, do the girls here agree?
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To answer your question not really.
I mean if you 'chase' a girl who doesn't even know you're doing it.. then you're wasting your time. or one whose shy.. you're wasting your time. But, approaching her or making it known you are into her with NO mind games or silly bs is way better than a confused girl wondering whats going on..
Its true I agree with you on when your chasing someone, you stop and they chase back and how thats a turn off, but the messed up part is maybe that person thought you were going to say something sooner than later?
I mean who chases anymore? Are you doing it where she knows, and you guys are talking and she's playing hard to get (Then I'd understand your notion) ? I mean this whole chasing thing is the root of the problem for starters for developing "meaningful" relationships hese days.1