This guy and I had sex twice. I want to keep seeing him but because I just ended a terrible relationship I'm not too ready to begin another, but I want sex because well... It feels good... ! I met this guy. I don't know what he views us as. We have had sex twice and haven't done much else besides hanging out. I basically just contact him when I want to have sex, and apparently that "cheapens" me? I don't get it. I'm just trying to get some pleasure, and I thought he would like it as well. He's not seeing anyone else; I'm not... Like so what? Or am I coming off as desperate and tacky? I know I'm gorgeous and can get any dude I want. I just don't want to have 100 sex partners. I like having the same guy... But like I said, apparently that makes me easy and cheap to him because I'm asking him for sex and nothing else, and I contact him whenever I want that D.
If a girl keeps continuous contact with a guy & wants to have sex regularly without any strings attached, is that seen as cheap and desperate?
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You should read articles on sex positive thinking. It might enlighten you and/or help you out. My only advice is be honest about what you want and try to avoid leading him on. Try not to make assumptions about what he wants/how he feels. It might make you feel like crap if you unintentionally lead him on and have to deal with the aftermath. Otherwise it's your body (be safe), your life (enjoy it as you see fit so long as you try not to hurt others in the process), and your choice.1
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