I have an ugly face and my body is terrible it's so hard seeing these skinny beautiful girls walk around and get boys wrapped around their fingers. I am just wondering why are some girls born GORGEOUS and the unlucky ones look like me? I'm hideous
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Depends where the insecurity comes from. Sometimes girls are their own worst enemies and bully each other over things that aren't an issue for guys at all. That's one thing this place has taught me!
If it IS mostly guys who made you feel this way though, I would ask, how fussy are you? If you are fussy, there'll be guys out there wondering why they are so ugly because you turned them down! If you aren't so fussy, then I see no reason why you couldn't find someone, since many guys aren't fussy. It's all about attitude, you need to get yourself out there, otherwise you won't be exposing yourself to enough people.
Also, you say you're ugly but I find girls give themselves way too hard a time about things like this. Humility is attractive, so you're already up in my estimations, you just need to work on your confidence.
Many girls obsess over minor details- they'll post a pic saying some small thing makes them ugly and I just don't see it, yet some 'girls at school' said they were ugly because of it, so they get a complex about it, and more often than not, that type of thing just stems from jealousy, or the bullies own insecurities.
As for body, if you aren't happy with your body, you can tone it up. A lot of the time, people who are less attractive, are just less healthy and they can in fact look much better with a better diet/ exercise. I'm working on toning up/ bodybuilding at the moment for that reason.
Even things like your skin will improve if you switch from an unhealthy diet to a healthy one. It might sound boring, but it gives me something to focus on and even helps with anxiety, so that's what I'd recommend if you want to feel better about yourself.
Once you get the confidence and you look better because of the work you've done, providing you get yourself out there, the dates will take care of themselves.
That's the best advice I can give you. Good luck :)0