My last crush destroyed me, but that was no one's fault really.
Harsh learnign experience, but glad it happened. Wish I could have gone through it earlier in life though. ja ja
---But I have made rash decisions. Asked a co worker to hang out 'cause I needed a distraction from something else. I kind of got over her while I was away in Mexico recently, but I'll still hang out with her if she's down.
Yes, I did. Things got complicated. Now I'm a bit of a mess. Trust your gut. I let my heart lead the way and it caused a lot of pain. I don't regret anything that happened between us, and even if I had a do-over I don't think I'd follow my instincts. Don't be like me, though. If you feel things aren't right, trust that. Walk away.
Oh yea... First day if school I thought he was so attractive.. And he was literally looked like a up grated version of Taylor Lautner 😍 ... so I sat beside him.. Then after chatting with him for a week in class I built up my confidence and asked him to hang out. I felt in my gut he was bad news. Long story short, I found out quickly that he's a huge ****boy and only wanted me for sex so I ditched the **** out of him and Found a better guy.. Life's good. If you know better do better!! ✌
*Sighs* Yes this happens to me. My instinctive judgement is somewhat unreliable. I never find out what a horrible person they or are or how different we are until its to late.
Thats called self doubt. If you continue that doubt without even giving a person a chance it will later go into the relationship causing more of those deep down feelings 'inside' to grow. Don't bring any insecurities or negative vibes into something new and fresh. It will be okay :) <3