My Girlfriend is mad at me coz she saw pictures of my exes, 6 of them. She said that they look stunning and this makes her uncomfortable. The pictures are by reason of social media.
I'm a business man and get much attention about jobs, opportunity etc. I even found my current Girl friend a sales job, gave her my clients, she closed all deals with my help and got promoted after 6 weeks at work. I did this to keep her busy as I felt it will help the relationship.
Now back to her insecurity. She says she is upset coz if I can make such stunning women my exes, than what's to determine our future, I honestly told her that they dumped me after losing interest but she still feels insecure. Need I say, She Is Also Hot!
This is a problem coz even getting sex from her has become a hill climb ever since this escapade. She gets emotional and says after we make love it messes her head up coz she immensely loves me and fears I'll leave her. (but won't I if she keeps on starving me?)
I unfortunately cheated on her on Christmas day of 2015. She was on holiday with her family and far away. I didn't mean to but I was made an offer I couldn't refuse. I threw a Christmas party where one of my lady friends arrived looking STUNNING ! Her dangerous curves and flawless design was prepared for Christmas. I ignored her the whole night since she was flirting with other guys and as a friend I didn't mind coz she knows and is kinda friends with my girlfriend. After the party she came up to me and ripped my clothes off and swore to me that this Christmas present stays between us. I couldn't resist her woman hood and gave in.
My relationship is in trouble coz it was the first time I cheated on her and I can't stop looking at other women and I slipped up again on New Years day whilst surrounded by beautiful woman.
I love this girl and she's pushing me away.
Any advice for this lost soul?
Since she hasn't caught me I haven't hurt her and I can't ever admit to my wrong doings coz it'll tear her apart and make her even more insecure when she realises the girls I've been with are within her prediction and suspicions.
But guys please understand, I was always a loving guy and I still am but I'm being refused affection from my woman because of her "complicated" reasons.
I mean... We can't give advice for the lost soul if you're continuing to cause pain for a soul that can be found. Its in your hands and me i honestly would've broke up with you if you cheated the first time 😂😂 not being rude but girls with their turning back game is soo strongg. I would be insecure always i wouldn't develop 100% trust and you lost it by cheating on her of course? Why be in a relationship if all you're going to do is cheat? If you're not ready to settle don't settle.. Why lead someone on and set them up into thinking you're ready to be committed to one person? Too much baggage. Waaaaay too much.
1) You need to stop sleeping with other women! If you can't do that, there's no point in reading any further. Being a business man, you're violating a contract; so, you should know better. 2) Do not tell her that you cheated; you keep this to your grave. 3) Tell her that you are with her for a reason. You love her. If you didn't, why would you continue to stay with her? Ask her what possible reason that you would stay if you didn't love her. Remind her that you chose her; she is special. Out of all of these women that enter your life, you chose her. Most importantly, remind her that if you were going to leave, you have done it a long time ago, but you are still there with her.
You are not meant for her, you are messing her around and cheating on her, if you truly loved her then you wouldn't just give in and cheat, frankly that's just horrible, and when she finds out its going to really hurt her now. You're one of those kind of people that ruins a relationship and then wonders why when you do things like this, not ok dude, not ok at all. You clearly don't know how to handle a women's heart and shouldn't get involved in any serious relationship until you can sort this kind of stuff out yourself