Go anonymous if you must. I am just curious what has caused some people to cheat. Was it temptation? Lack of interest in your partner? Your relationship got boring? If it was a matter of the last two options I listed, please explain to me why you didn't leave your partner before performing sexual acts with another person.
I have been cheated on twice. I never asked for an explaination. Though I never held it against the people who cheated because sometimes somethings are justified. I was recently cheated on by a long term boyfriend that I had which has led me to ask this question. I have no hard feelings toward this man because we were having problems beforehand, so I believe that is why he did such a thing. But I am trying to better understand the motive behind such acts.
Most Helpful Guy
When I was at my worst (a wife, a mistress, and a few "side chicks") it was more about power and wealth then sex. I was quite wealthy and was just so far up my own ass that if I saw something I liked I just went for it. I also had a connection with at least 3 of them, but again it was all about me.1
Most Helpful Girl
Yes I cheated, and I know it was wrong. I was in a bad place and my boyfriend at the time who cheat every time we got into a fight, with the one girl I couldnt stand (so high school I know) but one time I had enough. I cheated on him with a guy he couldn't stand just to just him a taste of his own medicine. In the end it just made me feel like crap and I learned an important lesson, two wrongs dont make a right. I was wrong for lowering myself to his level. We went on to break-up and both of us have moved on, unfortunately he hasn't changed, and I feel so bad for his girlfriend who he cheats on all the time.3