Is it true that once a player, always a player? Do they ever change their ways, and if so, is it due to maturity/age, or is it when they find that specific person they want to be serious with and is somehow 'different' from the others?
what are your views on this?
Most Helpful Girl
Yes and no.
There are different types of players and different types of reasons as to why they are players. Players are addicted to what they are doing, they see their targets as a challenge, they boost their ego every time they conquer. It's a game. You can be different than the others but that does not mean he (or even she) wants to give up the game, this is why many players fall back to their old habits or often cheat. The player can only change when the player wants to and be it for any reason. There are cases where the player never changes and he ends up alone. There are cases where the player do meet the one he wants to change his ways for. My ex for example was a huge player for years but eventually got washed up, he couldn't play anymore so he found this cute girl who was right for him and he changed his ways after I broke his heart.. I think that must've been his wake up call. However I personally can't help to believe that once a player - always a player. In the end.
Players aren't robots though, they can still fall in love but playing is an addiction they have. It's a way of living they have chosen. They play all types of mind games and they do it so well. It is exhausting to keep up with a player and even more so to try to change one. I could write a very long story about this subject coming but I suppose this will be enough. There's just so many different perspectives on a question like this, I can't speak for all players out there since everyone has different motives and different reasons but I hope I could help you out with "this".1