I'm dating this amazing guy, however I felt insecure that he earned 10x more than my paycheck.
He is an important people in the organization and I have a crappy job.
He always told me that I'm amazing, but I'm not that freshly-manicured, wearing designer brands and I'm just a very laid back introvert. I know I should feel confident and all that stuff.
but now I'm busy trying look for a better paying job just to make sure we are on the same level at least something that he could feel proud of.
Not sure if that is necessary
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I think you got it backwards , men couldn't give a shit about a womans job or how much money she makes and if they make a lot more than the woman then even better !! Women on other hand make men who earn less than them feel insecure and the marriage/relationship usually doesn't work because the woman makes him less of a man while thinking of him less of man ( straight from women's i know mouthes )2