I WALK AROUND DRESSED LIKE AN OLD WOMAN. Flat no name shoes. Baggy clothes, big sweat jackets because Im not secure with my shape. Not the least bit slutty even sexy. Wouldn't it make make sense if I was dressed slutty. Whats up with my luck.. I just want a decent man to talk to not hit the sheets. isn't it enough hookups going on.
If you are dressing poorly they may assume you have low confidence and think your an easy lay, put some effort into your appearance and not only will you run into better guys but your precieved confidence will run off some vultures as well.
It may be that you are dressing down too much. The fact that you don't do much with your appearance can send the message that you have low self-esteem. In that case men are going to pounce because they'll think any attention they give to you will be appreciated. It's like you're an easy target.
You're 30 and you still don't know this? Pretty much every guy wants sex. If you have something else to offer- good personality, ambitious attitude, polite behaviour, etc he will get into a relationship and stick. Girls have this stupid philosophy that guys want sex from 'slutty' girls. WHo told you that? Cosmopolitan magazine? That not how it happens dear. You walking around dressed like an old woman gives the impression that you're not gonna go anywhere in life. Why would a guy be interested in a relationship with a girl that seems so uninteresting? I mean you no offense. I may sound rude.. but that's 'cause I want to help you by being straightforward.
Im gonna guess they are running into you, cause they run into everyone, its kinda their thing. The guys who want more, desire more and is interested in more usally dont try to overun you with sexual advances.
I don't want "just sex" so I know we are out there. Unless I'm the only guy who feels that that way and if that's the case I need your number! Just be picky and strict. Don't settle or conflict with what you really want in one of us. You will find one of my true loving brethren soon enough!
You must current the wrong places because I've rarely if ever, seen men randomly approaching girls to hook up just like that. I won't ask where you live obviously, but at what places exactly do you see men approaching you to ask for sex?
You are not alone lol. Sometimes a guy will act like he just wants sex, but he is hiding that fact that is is falling in love with you, but he is afraid of being in that position, that he plays it off as "just sex" to avoid being hurt, aka many cancer signs. (If you believe in astrology lol)
But most of the time the guy actually just wants sex. And if thats the case he will let you know either low key or high key.
To avoid this... Date someone who is waiting for marriage to have sex. And if you don't wanna wait that long, just be careful who you trust. Lol im struggling with the cancer sign at the moment, but I know even though we though we talk a lot about sex. I can see something else in this so call relationship. That can be seen as love. So im being careful but, im not closing him out of my life, because I can almost feel the love, in a way I have never experienced and its a long distance relationship. .. So thats another option... If a guy really loves you he will stay in a long distance relationship with you, if not he won't even try to contact you, and most likely hook up with a local girl.
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