I do not want to date one, but I do want to date one. I wanna date one of those guys who wears blue because it's my favorite color. I don't know why i wanna date one, i just do. It just randomly came to mind.
Most Helpful Guy
You're young and dumb...2
Most Helpful Girl
Uh, yeah, I grew up in gangland and I can tell you what's gna happen if you go this route.
Are you ready to DIE if you break up with yr beloved gangbanger boy?
Yeah, I said die.
You know how gangs deal with snitches, right? And if you break up with a gangster, it's gna be pretty much assumed that yr a snitch. Just assumed.
If yr gna be stupid and go that route anyway -- hey, I was yr age once, too -- DO NOT let yr "boyfriend" know where you live, EVER. You come to him, or you meet him in neutral places, period. Again, you need a viable exit plan, because it's a very real possibility that people will try to kill you if you break up.
Also, yr gangbanger boy will probably try to knock you up.
In most gangs, having babies is a status thing. (And don't be stupid and think yr the only one -- having babies by MORE women, is even MORE of a status thing.)
It's also one of the only ways for gangsters to shirk the call of duty without losing face. In other words, "baby / baby mama needs me" will actually go farther than you think, in terms of being "down" or not having to pound the street quite as much, especially for a younger dude.
So, if that's what you want -- having to watch yr back, knowing that people will want to kill you if you break up, and looking at being one of someone's many babymamas -- then go for it!0