How to mind fuck with guys? How to make them crave for your attention?

for example : guys can mindfuck a girl by not replying to her calls and texts all of sudden and still be available and just ignore her... so for guys... how can girls mindfuck them?
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  • You can do the same thing; ignore calls/texts all of a sudden

    -or-

    If you're interested in long-term mind-fuckage this is a good plan but you do need to be a good listener/observer to make it most effective.

    1. Invent a distressing problem in your life
    2. Describe this distressing problem to the dude
    3. Ask the guy for help (make sure there is a solution to your problem that HE can come up with)
    4. Tell him that the solution is perfect and that it really helped you, shower him with affection and thanks
    ---this will sort of get him to feel protective of you, develop some trust, potentially open up to you---
    ---allow for some time in between this stage and the next---
    5. Gently push for more personal details about himself, it shouldn't take much to get him to confide in you
    6. Be super affectionate and understanding of his secrets/insecurities or whatever
    7. Create a problem between you two
    8. In the middle of the argument, throw whatever secret/insecurity he shared with you (if you actually get to the point where you find out what his insecurities are, hit me up, i can help you out here) -while- still remaining the plaintiff party (tricky, but doable)
    9. Cut off all contact.
    10. Goal achieved.

    • ROFLLL!!! you're hilarious! no girl i just started talking to a guy we texted for like 5 days and we talked about our goals, life all the nice stuff and he said he is interested more in a long term relationship so he seemed decent to me and we would flirt a bit here and there.. but before he started ignoring me.. he sent me his pic in a boxer with a boner.. i was kinda uncomfy at first but we both started talking dirty.. the last thing he said was he is hard very hard.. lol then the next day i texted him saying whats up.. he's usually the one who texts me first.. he came online on whatsapp but never replied.. he saw my message i even msgd him the next day too he still ignored me.. so i completely stopped and now its been a week... he is mindfucking me he hasn't messaged me yet! :( its bothering the crap outta me!

    • Oh. So I guess my mind-fuckage plan doesn't apply here :/ He's ignoring you because you ignored his "i'm hard, very hard" text. He probably feels embarrassed.

    • no i did reply saying i am kinda wet too.. and he just stopped replying and never texted again:(

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Most Helpful Guys

  • For starters your a girl younalready have the upper hand andvyou hold the key to what he actually wants get me if not your lady bit so what you do is play that card be sexy too s3xy to clos3 but yet to far you no play the innocent girl type get him super hard and walk away dont give in for like 2 days longer also be on him like a halk then change to something else like pay more attention to another man or just flip the switch from sexy to really not intrested dont go moody tho that will just turn him off always stay playful yeah but keep strong

    • lol i did all that... we were texting back and forth and flirty playful and discussed everything he said he wants a long term with me if it works out.. then one night we both started talking dirty he sexted me his pic.. and i did not send him anything but i did talk dirty.. the next day on he never texted or anything and i msgd him saying whats up.. and he never replied to that he has been ignoring me since a week now.. why is he doing that and what can i do to fix this? was he testing me?

    • Maybe he now feels embarrassed because he took it to the next level and you did not straight up did you comment nicely on the pic or let it go

    • yeah i did comment nicely and our dirty talk went a bit deeper.. the last thing he said was i am hard very hard.. to that i replied i am sort of wet too.. and he never replied after that... so what do you think?

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  • How to mind fuck with guys?
    Be a terrible human being that sending confusing signals that makes them eventually hate you when they can't put up with it anymore.
    How to make them crave for your attention?
    Be an amazingly awesome person that people can't help but love to be around.

    See the inherent conflict between the two there? Can't do both.

    • ok how can i be amazing awesome person? lol i just dont know how to play games.. but guys seem to lose interest after a while! tell me what to do! lol

    • Be spontaneous and outgoing. Show interest whenever you're with them. When you're not around them, live your life and don't think about them. No text conversations and such. Their interactions with you are limited to you in person. Even if that means they have to go a couple days without talking to you. The biggest way to get attention I've found is to not seek attention. You want their attention, which whether you know it or not, is hurting your ability to keep it. When you stop caring about it, you will behave much more confident and natural, less clingy and desperate, which leads to a MUCH more attractive persona in general. From there it's a question of personal preferences. If the guy isn't into your looks, you're beat. If you eat McDonald's every day and smoke while the guy is big on fitness, don't expect him to take any interest. Stuff like that. Stop trying so much and live your life. More activities/events, more hanging with friends. Just live your life.

    • but what if you met on online? how can we limit conversation without getting to know them?

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  • Truth is you can't make someone love you or try to cast a spell of some sorts, but you can be the person you originally were that made him fall for you in the first place. Show him you're still caring, that you're into him and for whatever reasons you were at your faults try to not let that get the best of you. You should invite him out, just ask if he wants to grab a drink, no need to justify it as "friends" because it's not your intention.

    • This is probably the best advice I've been given in a long time. I'll try to do that, though sometimes its so hard.

    • good advice

    • Its hard yes, but when you're mad, nervous etc. Some people tend to blurt out the first thing that comes to mind, and it's usually irrational.

  • Guys don't play hard to get. They don't play games. If a guy wants you he will show you. Don't play games with guys... You will be the one getting hurt

  • Just do the same back. You have no idea how effective it is when you give people a taste of their own medicine. Funny how some can dish it out but can't take it lol

  • Do the same thing back!

    I'm assuming this is just for a very short while and no grudges are held. Because this is a really painful relationship to be in.

  • Do the same thing back.. It annoys the hell out of me when a girl just stops texting/calling me or putting in any effort.

  • Sex is a kind of release. So you released him and he decided to not return. As well, you didn't share a photo so he may have viewed that negatively... likely maybe you are hiding something, etc..., and not clear if the conversation was positive about him. He could be embarrased, could have other GF's, may have just been playing around, who knows.

    I don't recommend learning to play games, but learn the games others play so you can stay away from those that are poison.

    I wish you luck finding the committed relationship you seek.

  • I honestly don't think anybody needs their mind fucked with. It's happened to me and I know how it feels and I don't thinks it's necessary to get even

  • Just exist and if you really wanna fuck them up be strong, successful and independent

  • I strongly suggest that you don't play with people like that - It's repulsive and immoral.

  • If he still likes you and you want him back too, what's the point? Just ask him back out. Problem solved.

    • I'm afraid of being rejected... I still have some pride you know..

    • We all do.

  • It's their game. You can't win a player. He is good at it, this is why he is player.
    Move on and find someone compatible with you.

  • Nudes.

  • That's not how people work.
    Honestly, people with balanced lives or at least balanced persona have no need for such petty games.

  • Shows tits, give them a little bit of everything and then refuse to give anything more.

  • You're a woman, it will just come naturally lol

  • If you give him tons of attention he’ll crave your attention once you start giving him less.

  • Its a secret... you have to just know how

    • Mind sharing that secret? haha

  • same, ignoring is the best mind fuck for anyone

  • Only the girl I care about can fuck my mind.. B)

    • would you stop talking to a girl if she talks dirty with you? but you were the one who initiated the dirty talk by sexting her your pic?

    • Personally, I would send my pic to the one I feel attracted sexually.. And if I've initiated it then I'll carry on.. And if she talks to dirty to me.. Woaah.. I'd rather appreciate it :D But I think in your case.. That guy as masturbating so he did sm sexting and now when he has cummed he's ignoring :p

    • so you think he will not message me again? its been a week since i heard back from.. is he playing games or what? i just dont understand... please help me understand him lol

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  • Probably just don't do it man. It serves nothing but emotional distress, if you know how it feels to be fucked with why would you want that one someone else?

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